A few years ago, I hit rock bottom.

I was unemployed, my confidence was shattered, and my marriage—after years of struggle—came to an end. Divorce wasn’t something I had ever planned for. It wasn’t just the end of a relationship; it felt like the unraveling of everything I thought I was building. The loss wasn’t just financial or emotional—it was identity-shaking. And there was no shortcut through it. You have to go through divorce, not around it. You have to face every emotion, every insecurity, every fear. And I did.

There were mornings I didn’t want to get out of bed. Days when I questioned whether I’d ever find my footing again. But slowly—deliberately—I started rebuilding. Not just my career, but myself.

I started with small habits. I committed to the gym—not just for my body, but for my mind. I worked odd jobs, learned new skills, and said yes to every opportunity to grow. I rebuilt relationships with my kids and made sure they knew they were loved and safe. I didn’t try to be perfect—I tried to be present. And day by day, I got stronger.

Fast forward to now: I’m a Vice President at a fast-growing tech company. I have a new partner who supports me and challenges me in all the best ways. My two kids are thriving—happy, confident, and grounded. And most importantly, I wake up with purpose and peace.

If you’re going through the valley right now, hear me clearly: you will get through this. But it starts with showing up for yourself. Every day. Even on the days it hurts.

You don’t need to be extraordinary. You just need to be consistent, honest with yourself, and willing to do the work. If I can rebuild from the lowest point of my life—you can too.

Your next chapter is waiting. Start writing it today